Dad & His Wife Demand I Go To Same College As StepSister Or They Cut Off My College Fund So I ~ AITA

 

I'm (17F) a senior in HS and making my college decision soon. I got into some really great schools for my major and I'm really excited for college. My parents divorced when I was 7, and I was living with my mom until she died when I was 14. I have only been living with my dad and his wife for the past 3 years. My dad remarried "Lisa" when I was 9 and she has a daughter (Jan, 17F) my age. My mom's family has been saving for me to go to college. My maternal grandparents have a 529 for me that they and my mom had been contributing to since I was a baby; it has 110k right now. Jan has really bad social anxiety and kinda clung to me when I started living with my dad. I guess bc Jan didn't really have many friends before I came along, Lisa has taken to pushing me to spend a lot of my time with her. This has only worsened during the pandemic + the fact that I don't really see her as a sister or friend, more like a housemate (we didn't interact much when I was living with my mom bc my dad would always take me out when I visited him). Story 1: AITA for refusing to go to the same college as my stepsister? Story 2: AITA for telling my dad his mistake isn't my problem to fix? Story 3: AITA for not wanting to give up our babymoon location for my sister? Story 4: AITA for visiting my aunt against mother's orders as it upsets my stepsister? #AITA #Parenting #Family